“Stuck” is the word to use when all you can do to face your inability to cope with your several readings is goggle your eyes. Books of different shapes and languages are scattered around you, and they only accentuate your dilemmas about what to resume reading first. Is it this book in French by that very prominent sociologist, or is it this one in Arabic by this great Egyptian novelist, or maybe you should continue reading either one of those three English novels you started last week…
Finally, you make up your mind and grab either one of those books. However, somehow, the words get blurry and the characters start jumping from one book into the other as if they were circus artists doing amazing confusing stunts!
You might still want to focus. You’d probably start pondering about the merits of every book and author at hand for some minutes to make a final decision. But if you’re like me, you’d most probably just grab the remote and watch Mr. Bean, instead.
Is this really your idea of enjoying reading? If your answer is yes, then keep doing what you’re doing, and stop reading this post right now… NOW, I said. If your answer is no, then what follows might be helpful.
Hereafter are some pieces of advice you might want to consider:
Do not read several books at once:
Yes. I think that for people like myself, we just cannot commit to this kind of relationships. So my advice to you is to take it slow. One book at a time shall do you good.
What we need to understand is that we’re different, and so are our abilities. Reading several books at the same time is not a healthy practice for some people. Some others can do this but some others can’t. This doesn’t imply that my breed are stupid, or that people who can read many books at once are smarter, it just means that we have different skills and intelligences. So, don’t feel bad about it.
(What?… I heard that! And no, I’m not just comforting myself?)
After all, the only good thing about being able to read different books at once is that you can switch books if you get tired or bored. However, the cons of this practice outweigh this single advantage.
Do not mix languages:
If you’re going to read many books. Like, if you really really have to, make sure that they’re in the same language. Reading books in different languages at the same time is confusing, especially if you’re a fast reader in some language(s) but a slow reader in other language(s). You’ll make much more progress reading in the language(s) your fluent in, while you’d be lagging behind in the other language(s), which might stir some dissatisfaction and might, in some cases, lead to low self-esteem, depression and then, suicide. Just kidding, but you got the point!
Get time to read but don’t force yourself into it:
Make a schedule and try to stick to it. Choose the time of the day that fits you best and plan your readings accordingly. Some people prefer to read at nights, other people prefer to read upon waking up. Don’t forget to make use of your free time and weekends, too.
Some things in life are more important than others, so are books. Start with the book which you have a strong and fresh desire to read, when you get tired of it, try the next book you’re looking forward to read. You should always have interest in what’s between your hands, otherwise, the reading experience would be ruined.
“Prioritize” doesn’t mean ignore:
If you leave a book for too long, you’d probably forget everything about it. Picking it up again would be kind of meaningless. Hence, if you feel that one of the books your reading isn’t as interesting as the others, leave it for another reading set, or just drop it altogether, but don’t feel compelled to finish it. This will only increase your anxiousness, and we don’t want that, do we? DO WE?
Use a timeline:
A notepad and a pencil would be very helpful. Track down the ideas, characters and events of the book. You can add your feelings, expectations and questions about the book. It’s also important to make sure to read your notes every time you want to resume reading, it’ll freshen up your memory and put you in the right mood for that particular reading.
Read (a) whole chapter(s) every time:
Don’t stop in the middle of a chapter. If you do, you’d probably be lost when you resume reading. Think of this as watching a series, what would you rather do, stop watching at the end of the episode and wait for the new one, or stop in the middle of the current one?…There you go!
Real readers love challenges:
Eat you broccoli, finish your dish! If you start several books and don’t manage to complete anyone of them, the effect will be very counterproductive. So, go on and finish your books, at least some of them. The feeling is really satisfying, believe me. Remember that if you don’t, you’ll probably have a very low self-esteem, depression and might commit suicide. Just kidding again, but you got the point!
Goodreads is a great reading carrefour. People write reviews and send updates about their readings. You can set up an annual goal and work on achieving it. A little competition would never hurt.
This, dear bookworms, is what I can think of for the moment. I’m sure you can have many other ideas on how to accomplish this task. So, please feel free to share them in the comment section.
Happy reading, everyone!
A friend who was in a dilemma has recently contacted me. She didn’t know whether to continue studying for a Ph.D or start working. “I’m really tired of studying” she explained.
I actually understand how burnt-out students can be after studying for 17 years straight. Nonetheless, I also know that working can be even more difficult and challenging. Actually, and from my own experience, I’ve come to notice that work, especially in a field as challenging as teaching, can be a lot more demanding and nerve-racking than studying.
Therefore, I felt I wasn’t in a good position to give any piece of advice on the spot. That’s why I’ve been thinking of my friend’s situation since she mentioned it. And honestly, the more I thought about it, the more convinced of the importance of studying over getting a job I got, especially for her case where she has her family’s support.
Now, I think that I have come to a clearer vision of what should be done in such a situation. Hereafter, I advance some of the reasons why I think that continuing is a much wiser decision than getting a job.
- Getting a job is not going on a picnic:
My friend wants to become a teacher. Being a teacher myself, I just happen to have tasted the pain of this profession. Therefore, I know that teaching is one of the most difficult jobs out there. It’s not as easy as many people imagine. We don’t get holidays all year long. We can’t not show up whenever we want. We don’t get paid when we’re on strikes (Contrary to the myth everyone seems to believe), we have the biggest responsibility in the world; EDUCATING THE NATION! We have very tight schedules and we have to deal with every kid his/her way. We’re supposed to be educators, parents, psychologists, actors…briefly, we’re supposed to be everyone else! And this is just a glimpse of the challenges teachers face on a daily basis. Still think we’re over-paid?
- Nothing beats a PhD:
As far as I’m concerned, I think that getting a Ph.D. degree, or any degree higher than the one one is currently holding, is the best thing that can happen to anyone. Of course there are many good things in life, but progressing in one’s studies has a special taste and flavor to it. The sense of fulfillment and the boost in self-esteem are actually valuable assets in anyone’s life. I’m not saying people will exclusively be happy if they get high degrees, but this is undoubtedly one of the things that would contribute to making me a happier person. Moreover, the opportunities one can get after getting a PhD are far more important and promising than those a person without a high degree can get. Think of all the job positions you’d fit for as your employability increases significantly if you are a PhD holder.
- Pain is better than regret:
Getting a PhD is PAINFUL. However, as a person who’s dying to continue his studies but can’t BECAUSE of his job. All I can say is that stopping one’s studies for the sake of a work position when you’re not financially dependent on that job is an “intellectual suicide.” Why would anyone ruin their future for a career that they may or may not like? Why take the risk of stopping one’s progress for a low salary? If you get a job and can’t continue your studies, regret will be ravenously eating you inside! Don’t fall for this trap!
All in all, these are just some reasons why I think people should opt for a PhD if they can. I thought I’d get a job to secure a living and then continue my studies. However, the government and universities made it almost impossible for teachers to continue our studies. Now I do regret not having continued my studies and I’d do anything to undo this mistake. Anyone got a time machine, please?